11 years ago today I married the love of my life. I feel like I have been married my entire life, but I also feel like we just said “I do.”
I can honestly say today that I am more in love with DeAnna then the day I married her. To me she is Proverbs 31 woman in every way. She is my best friend, she stands by my side no matter what, she has followed me moving her across the country, she is the greatest mother in the world, and just the fact that she puts up with me is amazing.
I would be lying if I said the past 11 years have been easy. Marriage is hard work. We have had GREAT times, good times, and we have had very bad times. I have shared this in church before but DeAnna almost left me while I was pastoring my first church. I was cheating on her, not with another woman, but with the church. I will never forget the thought of knowing I might lose her. It was the worst feeling in the world and that day changed our marriage for the better.
Many people at Revolution don’t even know who DeAnna is but trust me, Revolution wouldn’t exist without her. She has prayed for Revolution, served behind the scenes at Revolution, and supported Revolution and me every step of the way. She is not someone who needs or wants the spotlight, but she is my backbone as I lead.
Today we are sitting here with no children and it is just awesome. We spent last night with some great friends that go to Revolution (isn’t it great you can be friends with people you pastor?), we slept late today, got up and got breakfast and now we are headed out to simply enjoy the day with each other. I’m blessed.
I thank God every day that we didn’t quit on each other. I thank God every day for sending DeAnna my way. I thank God every day that my children have her as their mother. I thank God every day that Revolution gets to have her in the church.
The best part is it has been 11 years and she still lights my fire!! I think she is hotter today than the day I met her. I’ve gotten fatter, balder, and grumpier, and she has just gotten more hot!
I’m a lucky dude.