I am a broken record when it comes to teaching on the importance of married couples taking time away together WITHOUT the kids! Thank God for the awesome gift He gives us in children, but you are doing your children a favor when you leave them for a few days and go off and enjoy your spouse. I think couples should try to go away at least twice a year for a few days. You are teaching your children that your marriage comes ahead of them, you are showing them the love you have for your spouse, and you are teaching them what a healthy marriage looks like.
This weekend I am practicing what I preach. DeAnna and I left this morning for a quick weekend getaway. We are staying a beautiful bed and breakfast in North Carolina and we already can tell the difference these types of trips make on our marriage. We’ve talked, laughed, napped, and just enjoyed each other without the distraction of a 6 year old and a 4 year old.
The funny thing is there probably isn’t a WORSE time for me to be gone. Things are insane at Revolution right now! We are building out our first permanent facility, launching a second campus in 7 weeks, we have a ton of stuff to do, etc. On paper, I need to be home. But, guess what? All that stuff will be there when I get back. I have the greatest team in the world and they get more done with me gone anyway.
It is never a good time to get away, but you need to make time for it. Trust me, you will think me when you get back.
Another great thing about getting away this weekend is I get the opportunity to preach for my friend, Tadd Grandstaff. For those of you new to Revolution, Tadd was on our team when we first started the church. Revolution wouldn’t be around without him. About a year into starting the church, he felt God calling him so start a church and he moved to Burlington, N.C. to launch Pine Ridge Church. We have supported them since they started and they are rocking it out! Tadd and Becki just had their first child and I get to speak for him this Sunday. Pray for me on Sunday morning!
Also, plan on being at Revolution this Sunday and supporting what God is doing! Preston is teaching this weekend and as always, he will knock it out of the park! Preston does a great job as our Connection Pastor and does a great job giving me a break a few times a year from teaching. He is continuing our Uncomfortable series by talking about Praying For Your Enemies. TRUST ME, you want to hear what he has to say. Support him, encourage him, amen him, and get rowdy for him!
I will miss all of you Sunday but know I will be praying for the services and all of you! I’ll see you next Sunday!
Trust me, I will be a better husband when I get back, a better parent when I get back, and even a better pastor when I get back because I took time and rested and recharged.